Did your sex education include anything about masturbation? Ours neither! First things first: there is absolutely nothing shameful about masturbation!

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I'm 14 and still a virgin, but my boyfriend fingers me and gives me oral sex. For a couple of weeks, my vagina has been itchy and red, and it hurts when I touch it. I don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about this. What should I do?
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Your browser is out of date, and may not be compatible with our website. A list of the most popular web browsers can be found below. Just click on the icons to get to the download page. Vaginal tightness and looseness might seem to be sensitive topics to discuss. But ladies, you need to know about what is normal and what is not with your vagina. Some women may experience the feeling that their vaginas are completely closed, while others complain that theirs are uncontrollably loose. The tightness of the vagina is different depending on each person.
Whether it's part of foreplay or the main event, fingering can be super pleasurable for people with vulvas—as long as it's done well. Bad digital stimulation isn't just a huge turn-off; it can also be incredibly painful! That's why we spoke with some sex-positive women about how men can up their fingering game. Now, there's one big caveat here, which is that every woman and every vulva is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to fingering. Ultimately, the best fingering technique is asking your partner what feels good to them! Still, our sources said there are a few universal pointers that could help all guys get better with their hands. Even women who likes to be finger fucked into oblivion need a build-up. Then I add the other very wet thumb.