Jack is right about the demographics. No one knows your situation the way you do. I had a business, 3 engineering degrees, numerous patents, and was working countless hours a week to try and keep a roof over our heads, make sure she was fed, the house was clean, bills were paid, etc. I am happy and established successful comp. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. Please think that there is something worse: Sometimes I feel the worst wife, mother and daughter. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead.
There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. Trust Building Exercises for Couples. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. He just saw someone die or gave a devastating diagnosis or did an incredibly complex surgery with potential complications. Cool Nicknames for Guys. I am so glad I found this blog. Take the missionary lessons, read the Book of Mormon and the Bible.
I prayed about whether to marry this man, and I felt and still feel strongly that it was right for me. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. What if she absolutely despises sex. If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. Who knows, but I think it was especially hard for the moms of young men. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. Something that will help you stand out is a strong masculine frame. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.
Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. Ignore the busy-bodies who want to condemn your significant other. We strive to improve each other. I think about leaving all the time now because by myself there are no disappointments. She sacrificed two years of her life to convert people to the religion. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit. When you try to explain to them why the church would not publish said info on their own website they get mad at you and tell you you're ignorant.
